Sometimes just something you do; like shaking hands when youmeetsomeone.
FOUR DIMENSIONS OF A NORM
Identity: to whom does the norm apply?
Behavior:what are the actions the norm requires(or forbids)?
Propriety: on what basis does the norm label behavior asappropriate or inappropriate?
Collective Expectations: to what degree do others expect the normto be followed?
EXAMPLE ONE: BOWING IN JAPAN
Identity: Japanese people
Behavior: bow when greeting people, or when departing from them
Propriety: cultural
CollectiveExpectation: high (it wouldbeprettystrangeandrudeifsomeonedidnotbow)
But note: only ifother Japanese peopledo not bow
EXAMPLE TWO: NO-MEAT FRIDAYS DURING LENT
Identity: Catholics
Behavior: avoid eating meat on Fridays during Lent
Propriety: religious
Collective Expectation: relatively low (would not be that surprisedif another Catholic did not follow this tradition, probably wouldnot be especiallyoffendedbythis)
EXAMPLE THREE: NO MURDERING
Identity: all human beings
Behavior: do not kill people outside of specific circumstances suchas war
Propriety: legal and ethical
Collective Expectation: high
WHEN CREATING A NEW NORM, CAN CONSIDERTRADE-OFFS ALONG THESE FOUR DIMENSIONS